Note to self: Please Don't Cheat on Your Mistress !?

According to RadarOnline, Jesse James' fifth alleged mistress often found him cheating on her with other women.




A "close friend" of Merilee Geeth said that there were times the mistress would go into his office on the weekend and Jesse would be "fooling around" with another girl. This left Merilee "shocked."



One of Tiger Woods' mistresses said the same thing…she was mad because she thought she was the only mistress.



When you're sleeping with a married man, you aren't allowed to be "shocked" that he isn't being faithful to you. That's like drinking a bottle of tequila and then being "surprised" that you woke up in Tijuana next to a donkey missing your favorite kidney.

When a woman steals your husband, there is no better revenge than to let her keep him.

Apparently Rielle Hunter isn't happy with the photos used in her recent GQ spread. Barbara Walters said on The View that she spoke to Hunter who "was in tears" over the shots. In one of the photos, Rielle's belly is exposed while she lies with her two-year-old daughter. Let me get this straight!!! She is ashamed of her belly and not ashamed of sleeping with a married man?!?!?!?!


Walters asked Hunter why she is upset since she obviously posed for the pictures, to which Hunter responded she trusted the photographer and "went with the flow."

When Hunter saw the photos that were used, she told Walters that she "screamed for 2 hours." I'm sure the baby feels just as humiliated.



She should be more upset over the lack of judgment she used in actually posing for a GQ spread when her only claim to fame is the she got knocked up by a married presidential candidate. And "screamed for 2 hours?" Who has that much time on their hands?

Please don't drive when you're not driving.

I don’t know why my hubby makes such a big deal when I’m trying to help him drive. We all need a little help to point us in the right direction. I simply point out all the things “we” are doing wrong while we are trying to get to our final destination. Here is my simple direction to him: “we are going right” Him: “I know” Me “ho no! watch out!! Didn’t you see this car coming? You need to be more defensive when driving” Him: “do you want to drive?” Me (completely ignore the remark and keep helping him drive)


“ I think you need to get in the left lane”. Him: “I know”. ME: “so why aren’t you?” Him” am I driving? Or you? Me “why you going so slow? Pick up the pace, you driving like my grandma” Him “ dear God help me to not choke this woman” . Me: “ are you sawing a dress for yourself with this car? It feels like you are, this all break and go thing , that you doing just not working for me.” Him: “dear God just kill me now! Please I can’t take it no more.” ME:” LEFT! LEFT! LEFT! You got to turn LEFT!”



I don’t know why he makes such a big deal..I’m only trying to help….

What Women Want in a Man. Age 20-70

What Women Want in a Man:


What Women Want in a Man. Age 20

Handsome

Charming

Financially successful

A caring listener

Witty

In good shape

Dresses with style

Appreciates finer things

Full of thoughtful surprises

An imaginative, romantic lover

What Women Want in a Man. Age 30

Nice looking [prefer hair on his head]

Opens car doors, holds chairs

Has enough money for a nice dinner

Listens more than talks

Laughs at my jokes

Carries bags of groceries with ease

Owns at least one tie

Appreciates a good home-cooked meal

Remembers birthdays and anniversaries

Seeks romance at least once a week

What Women Want in a Man. Age 40

»Not too ugly [bald head OK]

Doesn't drive off until I'm in the car

Works steady - splurges on dinner out occasionally

Nods head when I'm talking

Usually remembers punch lines of jokes

Is in good enough shape to rearrange the furniture

Wears a shirt that covers his stomach

Knows not to buy champagne with screw-top lids

Remembers to put the toilet seat down

Shaves most weekends

What Women Want in a Man. Age 50

Keeps hair in nose and ears trimmed

Doesn't belch or scratch in public

Doesn't borrow money too often

Doesn't nod off to sleep when I'm venting

Doesn't re-tell the same joke too many times

Is in good enough shape to get off couch on weekends

Usually wears matching socks and fresh underwear

Appreciates a good TV dinner

Remembers your name on occasion

Shaves some weekends

What Women Want in a Man. Age 60

Doesn't scare small children

Remembers where bathroom is

Doesn't require much money for upkeep

Only snores lightly when asleep

Remembers why he's laughing

Is in good enough shape to stand up by himself

Usually wears some clothes

Likes soft foods

Remembers where he left his teeth

Remembers that it's the weekend

What Women Want in a Man. Age 70+

Breathing

Doesn't miss the toilet

I Love You and I Hate You Too!

Love and hate are as opposite as two emotions can be, yet couples often can relate to both extremes when describing their romantic relationship. How can this be? How can you feel extreme adoration for a person then loathe them minutes later?

If you're having serious marital problems, seek help right away. The average couple waits six years before seeking marital counseling, which means they're living unhappily for far too long.

You should also become aware of the certainty vs. uncertainty principle, which is a hidden cause of many divorces and may also help explain your emotional variances of love and hate.

When we have great "certainty" there is an urge for most of us to seek “uncertainty.” In the case of marriage, your “certainty” quotient is filled, your relationship steady and secure.

Yet, for many of us this potentially good feeling turns into boredom and staleness, and invokes a sense of not being fully alive or excited any longer. This then drives us to seek the other end of the spectrum, or look for “uncertainty.”

When you realize the dynamics of certainty vs. uncertainty -- and the fact that we often seek out that which we do not have -- you can take steps to remedy the situation before you engage in an activity that harms your marriage.

Essential Tips for a Happy Relationship


While emotional high and low points are normal in every relationship, physical or emotional abuse is not. If you’re suffering from the latter, you should seek help immediately. Likewise, if your partner is overwhelmingly focused on the “hate” side of the emotional spectrum, it may be time to re-evaluate.

Making your relationship stronger by:
Keeping communication lines open

Good communication is essential to any marriage and communicating openly and honestly about finances, children and your feelings will build a strong bond between the two of you. Don’t expect your partner to be a mind reader. Talk to them and let your feelings be known.

Connecting with your spouse with physical touch and physical activity
A touch on the shoulder or back, hugs and kisses are all forms of staying connected with each other and can make a big difference in the strength of your relationship. Further, one of the BEST ways to improve your intimate life, for both men and women, is the simple lifestyle habit of exercise.

Exercise will not only relieve stress but also helps you feel sexier and increases your self-esteem.

Compromise: We all want things our own way and there is a tendency by some to villainize those who either don’t agree with us and or those who are unwilling participants in accepting our ideas or interests. While love is sometimes confused temporarily with lust or infatuation, true love reveals itself by your caring enough to reach a compromise.

Compassion: Love is about alignment yet in truth what love is most is compromise by both parties having compassion, with both willing to find a center point of caring and sharing a healthy loving relationship.


Practicing the art of forgiveness
Forgiving your spouse is a way of saying that you know nobody is perfect, including yourself, and that you understand everyone makes mistakes. Forgive, pick up where you left off and move on with life.
 
 

should you be worried ?

Uh-oh. Do you think Jessica Biel should be worried? JT is working VERY closely with his ex-girlfriend Cameron Diaz — who he dated for four years!


Cameron Diaz was pretty bitter about her 2007 breakup with Justin Timberlake — so I was super shocked to hear that she was planning to work with him on the new comedy Bad Teacher! Even more surprising? We've learned that these two exes have been getting VERY chummy on-set! “Cameron and Justin look like they’re really enjoying each other’s company!” one Bad Teacher insider told HollywoodLife.com exclusively. Cam and Justin even filmed a steamy love scene for the flick earlier this week in downtown Los Angeles! “There’s a great vibe on-set,” said the insider. 
 
If I was his girlfriend I be real unhappy with this all situation…How do you feel about your man talking to one of his exes and staying in touch? I don’t approve. Maybe I’m just being insecure but I just don’t feel good with my hubby staying in touch with any of the exes. I think it only spells trouble....

It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken!

I’ve a friend who struggles with her relationship a very toxic relationship. She calls me when shit hits the fan, and we talk about him. She cries, I listen, she complains about him, and I give my advice for the thousandth time. it’s always the same it goes something like this: If someone say one thing, but do another, you are lying to yourself if you don’t listen to their actions. But if you are truthful with yourself, you will save yourself a lot of emotional pain. Telling yourself the truth about the situation may hurt, but healing is on the way, and it’s just a matter of time before things will be better for you.


If someone is not treating you with love and respect, it is a gift if they walk away from you. If that person doesn’t walk away, you will surely endure many years of suffering with him. Walking away may hurt for while, but your heart will eventually heal. Then you can choose what you really want. I hope this time it sinks in.

Love yourself first.